Notice the Shining Lights 0
by Tom Ainsworth
Did you ever notice how those little twinkle lights add so much to the ambiance of a setting. Restaurants occasionally string lights around and up into the trees surrounding their establishments….it just seems to make the dining experience more pleasurable. There are even some shopping centers that sport white twinkle lights all year round.…putting people in the mood to shop until they drop…all year long. There is just something about those shining lights that can alter the mood and set the stage for a good experience.
I had a meeting this past week with one of the members of a leadership team I have been working with this past year. My quest in the last few days was to get some deeper one-on-one discussion with each of the leadership team members on some proposed ideas for growing a more vibrant high-performance team.
My lead-off question to all the leadership team members was the same, “Given all the options we have been reviewing for a team development plan, what do you feel are the most critical next steps? By nature, this particular leadership team member is reserved. Her answer was insightful and she had a firm resolve as to what she felt was needed for the leadership as well as for the extended team. I was glad to have the one-on-one opportunity to hear her thoughts and to see her spirit and commitment to team development. It was strong and impressive….and something I had not seen from her in the many leadership team meetings I have attended with this particular team. She was able to let her light shine and express her thoughts strongly for what would help the larger team and her leadership colleagues move to a place of noticeably higher-performance.
A few nights ago, I flew into the Los Angeles airport and was waiting for the shuttle bus to take me to my hotel (I am always impacted by the sea of humanity at the Los Angeles airport….it always give me an opportunity to people watch). The shuttle bus arrived and I was greeted by a smiling face from the driver. He was a combination, greeter, driver and logistics expert (carefully helping people onboard….and creatively organizing their luggage to fit it all onto the limited shelf space in the bus)
As we moved from terminal to terminal (and there are many in LA), I noticed that at every stop, our driver jumped out of his seat and quickly went to the door to offer a smile and assistance to all who were climbing up the steep steps of the bus. It was late in the evening and he still found the energy to offer a bright smile and assistance to take each person’s luggage up into the bus. He had a shining light inside….you could just see it in the expression on his face. He lit up the late evening for many of the weary travelers carrying their heavy baggage.
One of the biggest lessons I have learned while working with people in my manufacturing and consulting careers is to seek out other’s opinions, listen to them and give them some room and the opportunity to let their lights shine.
Shining lights are all around us, sometimes we get so busy that we don’t take the time to see their glow….and sometimes, our own lights blind us from seeing the brightness of others around us.
There is just something about those shining lights that can alter the mood and set the stage for a good experience….sometimes they can even make some of the heavy loads we carry seem lighter.









